Tuesday, May 31, 2011

My Prayer This Spring

Where there were storms
    I pray for calm
Where is hurt
    I pray for healing
Where there is loss
    I pray for comfort
Where there is anger
    I pray for peace
Where there is lonliness
    I pray for love
Where there is discord
    I pray for unity
Where there is defeat
    I pray for triumph
Where there is despair
    I pray for hope
Where there is death
    I pray for rebirth
Where there is destruction
    I pray for rebuilding
Where there is silence
    I pray for singing
Where there are tears
    I pray for joy

~Ashlea Singleton 2011

Together

The rain fell
And the wind came
Before I knew it
The whole world changed
I looked at a land
That I once knew
And wondered how to start
Or if I could
Then I felt the touch
Of a comforting hand
And I heard a voice
Together we can

~Ashlea Singleton 2011

Monday, May 30, 2011

Memorial Day Quotes

And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes, and our sacred Honor. ~ Declaration of Independence

Dear Lord, lest I continue in my complacent ways, help me to remember that someone died for me today. And if there be war, help me to remember to ask and to answer "am I worth dying for?" ~Eleanor Roosevelt
I'm proud to be an American, where at least I know I'm free. And I won't forget the men who died, who gave that right to me. ~Lee Greenwood 
True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic. It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever cost. ~Arthur Ashe

Sunday, May 29, 2011

About the Name

"Ashlea": Probably self explanatory, but just in case: my name. Pronounced "ash-lee."

"Aunt": I am the “real” aunt to three wonderful boys and one awesome niece. I have also been honorary aunt to many others over the years. Everybody needs an aunt to laugh and cry with, and spoil you rotten.

"Attic": This page is a catch-all (much like a real attic) of thoughts, opinions, essays, poems, etc. Most of it may be trash, but maybe there will be an unexpected treasure crop up one of these days.

Saturday, May 28, 2011

1,000,000 Reasons to Observe Memorial Day

Each year on Memorial Day a national moment of remembrance takes place at 3:00 p.m. local time.



"I Believe in the United States of America as a Government of the People, by the People, for the People; whose just powers are derived from the consent of the governed; a democracy in a Republic; a sovereign Nation of many sovereign States; a perfect Union, one and inseparable; established upon those principles of freedom, equality, justice, and humanity for which American patriots sacrificed their lives and fortunes.
I, therefore, believe it is my Duty to my Country to love it; to support its Constitution; to obey its laws; to respect its Flag; and to defend it against all enemies."

The American's Creed is the national creed of the United States of America. It was written in 1917 by William Tyler Page as an entry into a patriotic contest. It was adopted by the U.S. House of Representatives April 3, 1918.

Memorial Day began after the Civil War as both Union and Confederate veterans and surviving families sought to honor and remember their dead. After the Great War (WWI), people began to include tributes to the dead from all of America's wars. Originally observed on May 30 each year, in 1971 federal law shifted it to the last Monday of May (which this year just happens to be May 30).

American Revolution - 25,000+ dead
War of 1812 - 20,000+ dead
Mexican-American War - 13,000+ dead
Civil War - 600,000+ dead
Spanish-American War - 2,000+ dead
Philippine-American War - 4,000+ dead
World War I - 100,000+ dead
World War II - 400,000+ dead
Korean War - 36,000+ dead
Vietnam War - 58,000+ dead  
War on Terror - 5,000+ dead
Afghanistan - 1,000+ dead
Iraq - 4,000+ dead
Plus numerous other occupations and military actions =
1,000,000+ dead

Memorial Day History - History.com
10 Things About Memorial Day - Mental Floss.com 
American's Creed - Wikipedia.com (emphasis mine)
US Military Casualties of War - Wikipedia.com

Friday, May 27, 2011

Welcome!

I originally started this blog in 2006, after we were hit by Hurricane Katrina (yes, someone besides NOLA was hit, don't get me started). I made one other non-hurricane related post, and then kinda forgot about it. This is my attempt to re-boot, so to speak. I've deleted the Katrina related stuff, kept the post about mom & dad (I liked it, plus it shows just how much of a procrastinator I am lol), and started over with some observations about my favorite place in the world - my home state. I hope you enjoy.

STILL Alabama the Beautiful

"Alabama the Beautiful" is a slogan adopted by the Alabama Tourism Department at some point in the last 100 years (I couldn't find the exact date, I'll edit if I do). It is used in advertising, I assume, Alabama's virtues to non-Alabamians as a tourist destination. For Alabamians, the phrase is most visible on the big green signs welcoming us home after sojourns or exile in foreign lands (or welcoming foreigners to our exotic shores, whichever way you prefer to spin it). It also makes guest appearances on those old-fashioned GPS's called road-maps that you can find at some rest areas and the occasional truck stop and a modified version urges all and sundry to "Keep Alabama Beautiful" as part of an anti-littering campaign, but that version seems to have fallen out of popularity a bit lately.

There are those outside and inside our borders who scoff at the idea of Alabama being beautiful. They are those who have looked beyond the tourism brochures and seen the poverty that still exists here, the petty bickering over whose sports team is the best, the racial tensions that still flare at inopportune moments, the political squabbles that have kept good people from doing better for themselves. And I don't deny that like any other place on Earth, there are problems here that might or might not be solved more easily than we know. 

But in April 2011, I saw once again how beautiful my home state really is. It had nothing to do with the sparkling white sands that edge the Gulf of Mexico, or the gently rolling mountains that rise to the sky in the North. I wasn't feasting my eyes on a pristine stand of evergreen trees in the Pine Belt or visiting any of our beautiful historical homes and gardens.

Just the opposite.

I saw trees that had been snapped like toothpicks, houses that looked like a giant had stepped on them, and cars that had been tossed about like toys. I saw entire towns leveled in the time in takes you to read this blog entry. I saw entire families torn apart, lives shattered, homes destroyed, memories scattered. 

And then I saw the people of Alabama reach out, pick each other up, dust each other off, and start putting the pieces of each others' lives together again.

No, it hasn't been easy. As others have said, this is a marathon, not a sprint. There is still a long road ahead, in terms of grief, and anger, and simply getting enough food and shelter for all those who were affected. But in the aftermath of such devastation, such horror and pain, the shear speed of response, and the numbers involved, was and is beautiful to behold.

I've seen that response before, of course. I've seen it in my own community when disaster strikes. I saw it personally on November 15, 2006, when a tornado hit my own home. I couldn't even count the number of people who came and helped that day. By the time the news people made it here from Mobile, the main evidence of the disaster had been cleared away. The camera man was amazed, declaring he had never seen anything like it. I see it every time there is a hurricane and we jump in to help each other before any governmental agency has time to reach us. I saw it on April 15, 2011, when tornadoes first hit Alabama, killing 7 statewide and 3 in Washington County.

My point is, for once, an ad agency got it right, though they also got it wrong. Alabama IS beautiful, but not just because of its beaches and trees and mountains and rivers. I love all of those things. But, in spite of the dumb and crazy stuff that we usually make the national headlines for, Alabama is beautiful because of her people.